More than 99.9% of all members of online dating sites are sincere about
finding a partner and/or new friends. That means they are virtually
all genuine. However, there are few people to be wary of – both
men and women.
Never give out any personal details until you are 100% confident
– 100% certain – that the person you are communicating
with is genuine. A good rule of thumb is to not give any rough idea
of your location until you have swapped 4 to 6 e-mails. This tip alone
ensures online dating safety.
The reason is simple: any insincere people would only be interested
in your personal details and not swapping e-mails.
Never arrange to meet anyone until you have exchanged telephone numbers
and spoken to each other at least 3 or more times. Ensure you swap
landline numbers and not just cell/mobile phone numbers. After speaking
at least 3 times or more with any potential date, you will have a
good idea of how genuine they are.
Never give out personal financial details; including details of wages,
salaries, savings, investments, bank or credit card details. If someone
is interested in your financial details, then cease contact with them
immediately! That is a shameless scam!
Never send or give any money to anyone you've recently met via a
dating site. If they ask for money, they are not genuine no matter
what the situation. Cease contact with them immediately!
As mentioned above, virtually all people listed on dating sites are
genuine and looking for a partner, companion, or soul mate. Following
the above tips and a little bit of caution and common sense will help
to eliminate any insincere ones.