LDS SINGLES DATINGLDS singles dating sites are just one example of “niche” dating – sites that offer a database of people with very specific beliefs and/or interests.
Because their religion is more of a lifestyle than just going to church on Sundays, LDS people generally want to marry other LDS people. Sometimes it can be difficult to track down the eligible people of your particular faith, whether you are LDS, Catholic, Jewish, or any other religion.
For LDS people, the ultimate end and purpose of dating is marriage. LDS people are encouraged to think about the qualities they want in an eternal partner and date accordingly. After all, in the Church of Latter Day Saints, you are married for time and all eternity.
Following are some generally accepted dating “rules” followed by LDS singles:
• Age 16 is the generally acceptable age to start dating. Thirteen, a common age within other communities to start dating, is deemed a little too young for the LDS.
• Keep dating light and fun while. Dating is the time to get an idea of what you are looking for in a partner. Don’t get too serious right off the bat – more likely than not, your soul mate will not be the first, or even the second or eighth person you date.
• In the LDS mindset, serious dating for men begins after serving their LDS mission. For women, more serious dating can begin after high school.
• The point of an LDS single dating another LDS single is to date people with your same high standards for life and eternity. Don’t expect to be able to change anyone.
• Dates at wholesome places – the zoo, restaurants, amusement parks, picnics, hikes, etc. Be creative: you won’t learn too much about a person if you simply take him or her to the movies.
• Go on group dates with other likeminded singles. Group dates are a non-threatening way to meet new people. In a group date setting, there are plenty of ready-made chaperones.
• Remain chaste – avoid risky situations such as being alone with your date late at night.
No heavy petting (“petting” is anything that increases sexual excitement). As a general rule, no touching above the knees or below the shoulders. Hugs, holding hands, and arms around the waist are generally acceptable. Use your own discretion.
• No passionate kissing. A short kiss, without the use of tongues, is all that is necessary.
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